Senator Ned Nwoko Advocates Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife “Deserve Pity”
In a recent televised appearance, Nigerian lawmaker Ned Nwoko publicly defended polygamy and expressed sympathy for men in monogamous marriages, arguing that having multiple wives provides greater stability and balance.
Remarks and Rationales
Speaking on the Sunday edition of Channels Television’s Politics Today, the senator compared monogamy to standing on one leg, stating:
“Just imagine telling you to stand on one foot or leg. You know how difficult it is. But to stand on two, three, four is much more balanced.”
He added, “I feel sorry for those who have one wife,” suggesting that men with one spouse face a harder path.
Nwoko, who is married to multiple wives, said he has no regrets about his marital choices and would make the same decision again.
Cultural and Biblical Context
When asked about religious objections, specifically that much of the Bible emphasises monogamy, the senator invoked the Old Testament as validation for his stance:
“The Old Testament does. I am a man of faith. But that’s not what we are here for.”
According to him, polygamy is part of African culture and a mechanism to ensure that women are cared for and children grow up in secure environments.
Controversy and Reactions
Nwoko’s comments have generated sharp public debate across Nigeria. Critics say his remarks undermine modern views on marriage and disregard the complexities of familial relationships. For instance, actor Uche Maduagwu took issue with the lawmaker’s focus on marriage structure rather than governance, urging him to prioritise his representation duties over marital advocacy.
Meanwhile, supporters argue that the senator is voicing a cultural truth, arguing that polygamous structures have historic roots in many African societies.
Background Context
Nwoko represents the Delta North Senatorial District and is publicly married to multiple wives, including Nollywood actress Regina Daniels. His television comments follow a period of marital scrutiny, including viral video footage where Regina Daniels appeared to allege violence in their household, a claim Nwoko vehemently denied.
Implications
The senator’s statements are likely to stir further discussion on marriage norms, gender equality and cultural tradition in Nigeria. Whether his views will prompt legislative, social or media responses remains to be seen.